Does it REALLY matter?
Some elements of my work give me the opportunity to let my thoughts wander off on their own for a while. Sometimes this isn't a good thing, as they have a tendency to go down routes that leave me feeling bitter and angry. But sometimes it can come back with some interesting results. (Just in case my boss is reading this - I was still working hard!!!) I have been thinking a lot about respect, and even more about forgiveness, over the last year. Forgiveness, as I consider myself to be Christian, is something I am supposed to do regardless of the wrongdoing, but I have found that I am particularly bad at forgiving people. Probably because I have a long memory for grudges, and have a habit of picking things back up. One of my favourite phrases is 'always forgive your enemies - it's the last thing they'll expect.' It would be nice if I could practice that a little more. Respect is a little easier. I have always maintained that respect should...